Everyone,

I don't usually send serious emails, but I recently found out about something that I feel obliged to tell you.  Now, don't get worried, I haven't got a terminal illness, I am writing to give you some insight about a program here in Manhattan that I had no clue even existed.  I, like many of you, was raised in a fortunate and loving family and my only concerns while growing up were innocent...That is not the reality for quite a few kids here in USD 383. Their daily lives are filled with neglect, hunger, and just an overall lack of family support.  These children have issues such as fatigue, vision problems and chronic stomach aches despite eating breakfast and lunch while at school.  Their social interactions are limited and their academic standing is poor in relation to their peers.  Their problems are from malnutrition, due to lack of food in their homes.

 
That's where the program I was referring to steps in...

 
The Kid's Backpack Meal Program is run by the Flint Hills Breadbasket and is designed to provide these children with very simple to prepare, kid-friendly foods that are discreetly distributed to them in their backpacks on Fridays or over holidays during the school year.  These items allow them to have enough food to get three meals a day for each day they are home.  Currently, there are 150-180 students in USD 383 that are a part of this program and the number is going up

 
Sounds like issues that would be in a third world country, huh? 

Well, I am sure you are feeling much like I was when I found out about starving kids in my own town.  I didn't know what to feel...angry?...sad?...I just couldn't grasp it.  I thought about the parents of these children and how could they totally disregard the most basic aspect of being a parent.  I wavered between thinking "what can I do to help?" and "they made the poor decisions in life, let them figure it out!"  I thought about my kids and how no matter how broke or upset I could ever be, I would do anything to provide.  

This brings me to why I am writing...

I really wanted to help with this program, but I was struggling with the idea of giving people something when they should have put forth the effort to just get it themselves.  I had questions like "isn't supporting this program just prolonging a bad situation?  Shouldn't the kids just be taken out of these terrible environments?"  So, I made a call to the  Flint Hills Breadbasket and asked the lady who runs the Backpack Program.  She said, "that's a good question" she said there could be a range of reasons why these kids have no food, from total neglect to extreme poverty.  Some parents are struggling to make ends meet and some are just unfit parents.  She continued to explain that many of these kids have been taken out of these neglecting households by the courts but are then put back because of the desire of the courts to have the kids living with their blood relatives.  She said that in many of those cases, the parents or relatives are right there saying"don't put this kid back in my house, I don't want them"...

 
When she said that, I felt completely deflated...ALL I COULD THINK WAS "WHAT THE %&$*?!!?"  She then went on to say that since they are back in these homes, the parents will do even less and the kids are left to totally look out for themselves, they are in "survivor mode"....  

That was it...That was all I needed to hear

 
I had overcome my questions of this being the right thing to do and was ready to act.  I have spoken with her further and gathered some info that I will pass on to you.  As I stated earlier, they have anywhere from 150-180 kids at any given time utilizing the program(the number fluctuates due to kids being taken from the homes) and she stated that their annual operating budget is around $30,000. 

Doing the math, the cost per kid annually is between $160-$200.  I couldn't believe how little they spent to provide these meals, yet had to rely on public donations to get it funded.  I thought about a way that I could help inspire or motivate people to get over the hesitations I had about giving...

 
Consider these points:

 - These kids didn't choose to be born to parents that lack good judgment...

 - The system is failing these kids by keeping them in a terrible situation...

 - These kids can only provide for themselves the way a kid knows how...  (one kid
was eating candy for their meals that was picked up at the St. Patrick's Day parade)

 - With every bit of good, there could always be some bad...so do you let the little bit of bad overshadow what could potentially be done to help a kid who, without his parents support, truly has nothing?

 
 - Think about your parents and what they provided other than food...They were everything.  What if your parents said they didn't want you and resented the fact you were there?    

 
So what can we do to help?

 
Here is the simple plan that I came up with...

Cost of food for one child for the school year.... approximately $180

Give what you can, but hopefully everyone will step up and give enough to provide for one kid.  Think of it as taking this kid under your wing, just like your own.  If we could get just 50 people to give that, we would have $9000 and cover a good portion of their budget.  This is where I am hoping to further motivate.  I am going to donate enough to cover two kids, since I have two kids.  If you have more than one child, try to give $180 per kid.  

 
Now here is my pledge to you

 
If we can raise $5000 for the program, I will shave my head...BALD!  If we can raise $10,000 it will stay bald for six months...  If we could manage to cover the annual budget of $30,000 I will keep my head shaved for a year!  I know it seems  kinda crazy, but if it helps further our efforts, it will be worth it.  Also, when someone asks me, " why the hell did you shave your head?" I will be given yet another opportunity to let someone else know about the program... 

 
As parents, we need to find it within ourselves to help right some wrongs ...I know with our resources, we can make a big impact.

 
What I ask of you is to forward this to anyone you know who you think could help us out.  Also, make sure to reply back to me with what you will give so we can try to keep track of the amount we have raised toward our goal.  I am attaching a brochure that gives some info about the program, feel free to print it out and show. 

 
Make sure to make your check to: Flint Hills Breadbasket and put "Backpack Program" in the memo.  This is a tax deductible donation.  I will be more than happy to pick up the checks or you can mail them directly to the Breadbasket, their address is on the brochure.  Remember, the money you will be giving is used to buy food for the children.  There will be no money distributed.

Sorry to make you read this never ending email, but I feel strongly about this cause.  If you have any other questions, feel free to call me at 785-236-9473.
 
I have no doubt we can get this done.

Thanks,

Josh,

jwalkerjdds@yahoo.com

If you would like a copy of the flyer that The Flint Hills Breadbasket has on this program, send an email to Josh and he can send you one through email.

 

Click Here For a Link to Flint Hills Breadbasket Website

 

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